Monday, April 30, 2012

Launcing Kids and Reshaping the Nest

My message notes from April 29, 2012


Real Help for the Modern Family:
Launch Our Kids and ReshapeThe Nest
Psalm 127; Mark 10:6-9
Intro
Philippians 4:13  I am able to do all things through Him who strengthens me.

Remember from Last Week…
Parenting = the process of training our child to leave!
-Genesis 2:24  “That is why a man LEAVES his father and mother…”
-Proverbs 22:6  “Teach a youth about the way he should GO; even
    when he is old he will not depart from it.”
-We raise our kids to go and establish their own families
-They will most likely duplicate the home they came from!

Launch them!  (don’t just let them leave)
Psalm 127
1.  Depend on God  vs. 1-2

2.  Receive kids as gifts vs. 3

3.  Release them for a mission  vs. 4-5


Parenting = leading our child to  find and follow Jesus Christ, 
                    so they will lead their children to find and follow Christ!
1 John 5:12  The one who has the Son has life. The one who doesn't have the Son of God does not have life.
Deuteronomy 6:5  Love the Lord your God with all our heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength
-We must launch them towards Jesus Christ
-His will is more important than “our will” for our kids
-True success is when our grandchildren find and follow Jesus!

Launching Kids requires a shift in our role
-From Authority to Advisor
-From hands on, to hands off

After we launch our kids, we must…
Reshape the Nest
Remember the original plan…
-Mark 10:6-9 is a lifelong plan
      Goals for our marriage as we reshape the nest:
            -Enjoyment
            -Example for our kids

Welcome Jerry & Becky Jones (interview)


Remember…
I am able to do all things through Him who strengthens me.
                                                Philippians 4:13

Conclusion
What is my next right step?
-Where are you right now? 
    Pre-launch, Post-Launch
    Full nest, empty nest
    Starter nest, long gone nest
-How must I surrender to God?
-Who must I turn to for help?
    -Connection Group, other godly friends

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